Lying is bad right?
So when someone lies to you,
Does that always means a bad thing??
So when someone lies to you,
Does that always means a bad thing??
Well, for some aspect its ok because lying is not necessarily signifies bad things, sometimes people lies for some good intention. Protecting someone maybe?
But when you found out about it, even that the person lies to for own good, but how do you think of them? can you still trust them? still things get complicated where you gonna form a new perception toward that people. so, can you imagine how complex the things can be?
On the other hand, this also means betrayal. when you really believe in a person but in return what you get is all lies. the person that you believe in lies to you. can you imagine how terrible things could be? COuld you imagine when the truth that we used to believe throughout for some period is all fake. How do you feels that time?
When you discover the truth, people are still denying the truth that they are lying. Human being are so complex. What's wrong with admiting the mistake and seek for forgiveness. Yet they tries to twist the truth by covering us their mistakes. People often says...
"I was trying to tell you that but..."
"I have no intention to lie to you..."
"I did not know why i do so..."
"I just worried that you'll mad so..."
"No, no, no... how would i lied to you, i was just..."
And lots lots more...
"I have no intention to lie to you..."
"I did not know why i do so..."
"I just worried that you'll mad so..."
"No, no, no... how would i lied to you, i was just..."
And lots lots more...
Some form of lies that will never end, once you cheated then you'll continue cheating for the second times. If your lies haven being discover, don think that you are being so careful. God knows. One day, eventually the truth will turn out. haha...
However, once you being discovered, people tend not to believe you as much as the previous days. Things will never be the same again.
So, try not to lie to your friends and also your partners. Even for good intention, explain thoroughly and get people to understand you would not able to cover up your mistakes.
Wound will heal overtimes but scars will remain for life.
4 comments:
i dont like ppl lie me.. but if ppl lie you to not hurt you.. is something really hard to face...
u want get hurt? or get lied? .. but i prefer ppl dont lie!!
ever thought what would happen if you wake up one day and realised that everything was just a lie. a lousy lie.
i think the most difficult thing while lying is maintaining the composure and the face movements especially the eyes.
The main problem I see here,
in this whole lying scenario, is that we always think, or assume, or believe that people need to be "protected" or "shielded" or "saved" from something or another.
If someone has a flaw or something you need to "protect" them from, just tell it to them, but make sure you have some constructive criticism or advice or maybe just a shoulder to cry on or ear to listen to. If you've got nothing but bad news, then what I normally do is to just zip my trap and let someone else do the news-breaking.
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