Sometimes we make our life miserable by doing something that different from before, just to make people surround us to notice us. I believe everyone done this before, right? Why torturing ourselves like that? What for and for what? No point keeping quite beside and wait for people to realize you. What if people really do not notice anything? Blame them for that reasons? Answer this question, WORTH IT???
When in a group of friends, there is a risk you do this. Why if they really do not notice you? We may have a lot of friends and you will just lost among all our friends. Sometimes you will think, what sort of best friends that forget best friends? But if you already can say that you are best friends then what for you doing all this? Could not do anything so you stop talking and be quite? Stop talking will just make you feel sad, being neglected and increase your anger. As a friend, main reason going out together is to be happy and have fun. Why make yourself like a stranger to your entire friend? Think back your friends neglected you and treated you as stranger or you make yourselves become a stranger to us.
2 comments:
Wat 2 do to amaze a group of fren.. when a person trying to talk for more than ten times but never get response or reply from their group of frens?
Furthermore..
When a person ask d same question for d second time n didnt get response from d group of fren n they reply to other fren eh question(although he ask u 1st b4 others fren ask), will tat person feel angry, frustrated & disappointed with his/ her fren???
Other than tat, if a person feel no mood d, his/ her fren should cheer him up... NOT leave him at a dark corner n let him feel even more down or feel being leftout OR just ask him/ her to seat nearer n did not talk to him/ her..
i thought frens r supposed to cheer them up when a person down or wat... not being bias & treat girls nicer n push aside guys...
Frens should treat equally although different race, age, or sex..
For example, when i go out with a group of frens, i encounter problems where -
When i ask a guy fren first, then the girl fren ask a question to my fren also, d guy fren answer d girl's question 1st...
D question is, is this call best fren?? is it bias?? i do feel tat this situation is bias where d guy fren put more priority to the girls rather than guys...
Reasons???
Hmm.. mayb i thought he wanna find a new gf, so he go close 2 girls n treat better n nicer...
Furthermore, a fren SHOULD think wat others will feel after every action u wan to take...every decision u make, might hurt ur frens... Example...
Leave his fren 2 seat bike alone & others seat car although they r going out together...
Every single hangout with frens or reunion, d same person will seat bike & had never had d chance 2 seat car 2gether... bcoz there r no space... space was given more to ladies n those who r lazy 2 ride motor... **SIGH**
Please la... Think of d other's ppl feelings la.. STOP being so selfish for those who think he is..
Other than tat, when i ajak u all out, it seems tat u all hardly to agreed with... n usually u all will not go out if i plan...
& usually u all will straight accept n go out if a girl ask 2 go out or when u plan it...
Think wat eventually i will feel & think...
U all doesn't know wat i really feel bcoz u all NEVER EVER think wat i feel... NEVER EVER experienced wat i feel...
when u plan to organise a hangout or gathering, make sure majority is free.. n not bcoz of a girl can't make it cz she is working, u changed d time for d whole programme...
when guys cant make it, u didnt change d time to suit him...
Y is this so UNFAIR?
Y can't u treat EQUALLY among frens without being bias & always gv d main priority 2 girls??
Furthermore, when u go out with a group of frens, y u cant go back in a group??
Y do u need to ride faster n ignored those behind??
R u being so SELFISH??
If u have emergency or wat, then it's fine.. but it seems to be always like this..
Think for ur own la..
Pls do think wat we will feel...
some time i hated to go out with u is bcz of this few matters that u will nvm changed...
There's no use i create a topic n talk with u all, i rather keep silent n save my energy & saliva...
Reasons - i had created a topic n voice out, but there is no response or reply..
i had voice out for several times, but in d end, no feedback was given..
It's just like we r in different dimension where i'm just like a ghost trying to talk to human...
Human can't hear a ghost talking but d ghost can hear u all talking..
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