Education requirement in today’s working area are getting higher and higher. If you are in secondary school, better study hard and get a place in local university. Anyhow, get at least a degree; if not, what you earned may be enough for yourself but not for your wife and children. What do you all think? Even if we choose the partner of our life, this significantly applies. Are you going to choose a husband who is just a factory operator? Or are you going to choose a wife who is lazy, inconsiderable and do not know how to cook? Do not think that life is what you all see in television. Choosing a wife or a husband without caring what he or she does. You again may feel sweet and happy at the beginning. But life in reality continue after a “happy ending” as what we usually see in movie, drama or television. Will be going to be happy with your family condition? You may say never mind, but in reality, do you? Can you?

We may be happy but think back, for how long? For the short term? Or for the rest of our life?

Decide carefully. You have choice in your hand and hopefully you will not regret with your decision. This this way, "long pain better short pain"